All Endings Are New Beginnings

All endings are also beginnings; we just dont know it at the time.
Did you know there aren't really failures in life, until you stop trying? Robert Louis Stevenson once wrote, if you are going to make a book end badly, it must end badly from the beginning. Though he was making a reference to writing a book, this quote can most definitely be made true and be put to good use in our own lives.

Don't let the book of your life end badly, many of us have bad starts while we are finding our way, but there are only a few who can pull out the greatness inside of themselves consistently enough to make their legacy a great one.

Every time you don't get what you want out of a situation, every time that you don't achieve the results that you were trying to achieve, is a new chance to start over, and go for them again. You may have to change up your game plan to get where you want to, but never give up!

When You Really Matter To Someone

When you really matter to someone that person will always make time for you. No excuses, no lies, and no broken promises.
Really being an important part in a person's life means a lot of things. When someone really matters to you it is crucial that you are willing to show them just how much they may mean to you by respecting them, honoring them, and never taking them, their time, or their feelings for granted. When you really matter to someone, that person will always be willing to make time for you. That person will never use an excuse to avoid being there for you.

That person will never consider hurting your heart by telling you anything besides the truth, and will never risk losing your trust by breaking a promise that they made to you. Really mattering to someone should never leave a doubt in a person's mind of whether or not you will always be there for the person you matter to. Remember in love that there are never any excuses good enough for not being there; there are never any lies or broken promises that will ever be better than honest words and honest actions.

Feelings Change, Memories Don't

Feelings change, memories don't.
In order to truly let go of a person or a relationship that ended abruptly and unexpectedly in life, we have to realize at some point that feelings change, and memories don't. Over time, usually the separation of two people causes feelings to change between these two, though the two may share very pleasant memories for years, memories by themselves simply aren't enough to keep two souls bound together. In order to keep the flame of a relationship lit, a couple has to be willing to keep lighting the candle.

A pair has to be willing to work hard at making each other happy, and willing to put effort into communicating effectively in their relationship. One thing that is promised at a relationship's end is that there will always be memories for both parties to take with them while parting ways. Through all of the pain and struggle just try hard to remember that feelings sometimes change, but the memories you have are yours for the rest of your lifetime.

Never Hate Those People Who Are Jealous Of You

Never hate those people who are jealous of you but respect their jealousy because they are the ones who think that you are better than them.
When people hate on you, or seem to be jealous of you, never think that you are doing something wrong, because in fact the only time you will have haters is when you are making some kind of progress in life. Think about it. Do you know people without haters? Usually these are the people who are making no attempts to do anything in life but stay afloat.

Think about the people in your life who are committed to action, and bettering their selves on a daily basis. Even the most friendly and most kind of your friends who is putting forth major effort to better their lives has probably received hate from someone, and probably very undeservingly so.

It is in some of our peer's DNA to try and discourage people from doing what they are supposed to be doing, and telling people that they are wrong. Keep on your course and remain courageous!